What Happened To Andrew

remember · Posted: 23 Oct 2006 10:55 pm Post subject: What Happened To Andrew

You have no idea what it is like for me to go through losing Andrew without knowing for sure how it happened. I could say, "Put yourself in my place," but there is no way that you could. You have probably heard rumors and theories, and I have heard those too. The answer is - we just don't know.

Maybe someone out there does know what happened. If you have been holding back, afraid of getting into trouble, here is your chance. You may post a reply to this topic as a guest. His family and friends have a right to know the truth. Do the right thing.
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Andrew's Mom

littlemom · Guest

I need to add one more request: if you know something--know it, not just think it might have been, or heard about it from someone else--no matter how small or insignificant to you it may seem, please post it here. Did you talk to him that day? the night before? Did you see him any time in the day or so before?
Believe it or not, every memory that you have of him is precious to us. Our hearts and minds may never rest easy, but you can fill in some painful gaps. No one else knows what each of you knows. Share those memories, no matter how small.

remember · Posted: 08 Nov 2006 04:45 pm Post subject: Your Identity

Just so you know, we are not concerned about your identity. If you know something and want to remain anonymous, that is perfectly acceptable. We just want to know what happened. So, please, any information would be helpful.
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Seanlong9 · Joined: 03 Oct 2005 Posts: 1

The last time I ever saw him at the at the Texas Roadhouse. It was the first time that my new girlfriend ever met my parents. It was really the first time that she met any of my friends. We went and it was Sarah and I, My parents and two of their friends. Andrew came out and smacked me on the back of the head. I turned around ready to beat someone down haha. There he just kinda stood laughin cleanin up the table behind me. He came and talked to us all for a minute, but then he had to go back to work since it was a busy night. My mom thought he was just the nicest kid ever. She works with his dad at Wesleyan. I know thats not much, but maybe it brought a smile to your face. It did mine just thinkin about it.

jesstrh · Joined: 23 Oct 2005 Posts: 1 Location: Bristol, TN

This is the first time that I have been on this site in over a year. The pain from his passing will never really go away but is easier sometimes. I worked at the Roadhouse with Andrew and was good friends with him. A week before he passed he came over to my house with my brother and I and we just sat around talking all night long until we all finally fell asleep at 4 or so. He was his happy go lucky self. It was a week to the day after that night, that he passed. My manager and I both knew something was wrong when Andrew didn't come in to work, because he was always early for work and you could guarantee that he would be there. I tried to call him several times and one time I tried (around 6:00 that night) his phone rang and it did that beep at the end of the ring to signal he was on the other line. He was talking to someone at 6:00 but I have no way of knowing who it was. I left him a message asking him what was wrong and if he was ok but I never got a phone call back. I heard the news the next day and realized that indeed something was wrong. I hope that this little bit may put some pieces into place. I pray each and every day for your family and I miss Andrew as much today as then.
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May God Bless you and keep you always!

Jessica